Open Question: ex-hubby from hell..dont answer unless u read this LONG question. thx!!!!!!?
im 27 yrs old. please keep in mind, that prior 2 this, i was a normal girl having normal relationships. the following was due 2 my pure stupidity. i met a drug addict..& well..he didnt like, that i didnt like, that he had an addiction problem. heres our story: the relationship was 3.5 years (we were married for 2.5 of them). during this time, i experienced pure hell. alot of what i experienced was him abusing '911' on me (i am 5'4 girl and he is 6'0 man) the only thing i think i did 'illegal' was close the door behind me so he couldnt leave our house while we were fighting. yes i admit i was so attached to him/in denial, that i was afraid 2 let him go. other than that, here is a FRACTION of what HE did: called the police on me about 15 times, packed/moved into his parents house about 5 times, threatened 2 leave me about 700 times, lied constantly, changed his mind about his career constantly which made my life very unstable, had a very bad percocet then heroin addiction, had depression/anxiety, threatened 2 leave me once he found a job, used me up for all my $ (hundreds of thousands of dollars), had insomnia which caused me 2 never sleep either, caused such a stress on my life that i couldnt keep a job longer than a month, caused me 2 get a hotel almost 15 days out of the month every month b/c i just couldnt handle being @ home, put a loaded gun 2 my head when were arguing, boxed my ears during a bad argument, sold tons of my personal belongings 4 heroin, secretly had the police come 2 my house so he could get his stuff/move out w/o a problem the 1st time he broke up w/me, secretly stole the 1k cat that i purchased..hid it @ his sisters house & still has her 2 this day, filed a false injuction against me so he wouldnt have 2 go thru an eviction process of making me move out, put me in jail b/c i scratched his neck when he put his hands on me 1st (no marks on me so they took me 2 jail), threw my boarding pass in the garbage can @ the airport on the way back home from visiting my family 4 xmas, which caused the police to interrogate him & me @ the airport (he didnt want me 2 go back), threatened 2 drive the car off of a bridge while driving 100 mph n i was in the car (at least 3x), never picked me up from work one day/turned his phone off so i had 2 walk 5 miles in the rain on a hwy w/o sidewalks/railing, would scream & literally RUN away from me when we would argue in public, took my car n left me stranded @ my house for 1.5 days/kept his phone off the entire time, & told his mom not 2 talk to me if i called her when me n him happen 2 b fighting. its been 1.5 yrs since we've been separated. its just recently starting to kick in how bad things were/how his family never saw him as a problem. will i ever have a normal relationship with a man/his family again? am i scarred for life? i feel that i have learned 100% from this, but should i still seek counseling even if i am happy now?
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